Nigerian author and entrepreneur, Simisola Sowole, aka Burnt Dodo, has announced that she in no way doesn’t mind if her spouse cheats on her, provided that there’s still love and respect in the relationship.
Taking to her webpage on Twitter, she revealed that provided that her spouse isn’t likely to keep it secret, then she has no issue with him cheating. She wrote;
This might sound crazy but over the years, I’ve realized that I don’t mind if a guy cheats as long as he still loves, respects and performs his duty as a spouse. It’s something I’m going to discuss with my spouse in future. I don’t enjoy secrets. Unpopular opinion.
This isn’t about self esteem. Far from it. And yes, someone can love you and still have sexual inter course with someone else. And I still want his attention. That’s the most important. We still have to keep the attention we give one another.