Singer Credits Self-Preservation Instincts for Avoiding Romantic Trauma
Nigerian songstress Simi has shared an unconventional relationship revelation that’s turning heads – the award-winning artist claims she’s never experienced true heartbreak. In a candid interview with VJ Adams, the “Duduke” hitmaker explained her emotional defense mechanism that keeps heartache at bay.
“I don’t think I’ve ever been heartbroken, but I’ve been hurt before,” Simi confessed with a knowing smile. “I’ve probably broken someone’s heart though.” The 35-year-old singer attributes this emotional resilience to her zero-tolerance policy for toxic situations, whether in romance or friendship.
Simi described her approach as preemptive self-care rather than emotional detachment. “If I feel like something isn’t good for me, my brain is wired to walk away,” she explained, comparing her mindset to refusing pity relationships. “Let me feel bad, then I’d get over it – that’s always been my philosophy.”
The mother-of-one expanded this principle beyond romantic connections. “With friends who make me feel unsafe, I cut ties immediately,” said Simi, who openly battles anxiety. “Love always carries the risk of hurt – that’s why I distinguish between temporary pain and lasting heartbreak.”
Fans have flooded social media with mixed reactions to Simi’s revelation. While some applaud her emotional boundaries, others question if this self-protection comes at the cost of deeper vulnerability. Relationship experts note her approach reflects growing mental health awareness among modern women prioritizing psychological safety.
As Simi prepares new music, this interview reveals the same clarity defining her personal life also shapes her art – knowing when to hold on and when to walk away. Whether in love or lyrics, the superstar maintains one non-negotiable: her peace comes first.
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